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Ubwoko bwitwa MOSO mu Bushinwa nta “gushyingirwa”, urugo ni urw’umugore gusa,nta mwana umenya se,nta mugore ugira umugabo, nta mugabo ugira umugore!! Ubusabane gusa gusa!

March 13, 2023
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Hakizimana Maurice

Ni mu Bushinwa,mu bwoko bwitwa Moso.Ni impamo,nta mwana uzi se,nta mugore ugira umugabo we bwite! Byose ni muri “mutuel”(ubwisungane) gusa gusa!Ni ubwoko gakondo bwo mu misozi ya Himalaya, mu majyepfo ashyira uburengerazuba bw’Ubushinwa!

Ni ubwoko budasanzwe,ku buryo muri 1924 mukerarugendo (explorateur) witwa Joseph Rock,waguye kuri ubwo bwoko bwihariye yabwanditseho atangaye agira ati:

«Aha ni ho hantu ha nyuma ku isi hatuje kandi hahumeka ituze kurusha ahandi hose ku isi,ahantu hatigeze intambara,aho abaturage bibera mu busabane n’ubwisungane busesuye».

Na n’iyi saha,ibyo byemezwa n’abahanga mu bya siyansi yiga iby’inkomoko n’amoko, bemeza ko ubu bwoko butuye hano ari sosiyeti y’ikiremwamuntu kitazi ubusumbane hagati y’abagore n’abagabo,ntibazi intonganya n’amakimbirambe ashingiye ku mitungo. No mu rurimi rwabo nta jambo “intambara”,”ishyari” cyangwa “ubwicanyi” abamo!🥰

ABA MOSO BO MU BUSHINWA,ABAGORE NIBO RUGO,NIBO GISEKURU,NI BO SHINGIRO RY’UMURYANGO.

Ni abantu bagendera ku cyo twita “le matriarcat” [aho mama wawe aba ariwe mutware w’umuryango,akaba ari nawe igisekuru gikomokwaho] mu gihe twe tugendera kuri “patriarcat”[Aho papa wawe aba ariwe mutware w’urugo,ari nawe igisekuru cyawe kibarwaho]!Mu yandi magambo umugabo si we shingiro ry’umuryango mu bashinwa no mu bwoko bwa Moso. Igisekuru kibarwa kwa mama,amazina y’umuryango atangwa n’ababyeyi b’abagore,nta mugabo ugira umutungo!

Ibi byo kurongorwa/gushyingirwa ntabwo bizwi,nta n’icyo bivuze!

Imibonano mpuzabitsina ni uburenganzira bwa buri wese,ni ukuvuga ko ikorwa nko gusuhuzanya! Umugore akunda uwo ashatse,bakaryamana,akikomereza!

Nta mwana n’umwe umenya se,nta n’agaciro bifite! Buri mugabo wese ukuze,aba ari so,ariko bahitamo kubita ba “nyirarume”bose! Buri mugabo wese ubona yakubyara uramwubaha cyane,nta wamenya yaba ari So!!🤷

Ariko aho iterambere riziye,bamwe bari guta umuco, hari abatangiye kumenya abo baryamanye,ababateye inda,n’imyirondoro ya ba Se,ariko ni ibibavangira ubundi si umuco wabo kuva ku iremwa kugera ejo bundi muri za 50.

Umukobwa atangira gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ku myaka 13, ngo aba amaze gukura(twe tuvuga ko umwana akura ageze 18,bo ni 13)! Icyo gihe ahabwa izina rishya,agahabwa na ka “Ndigenga” ke aho atangira kwakirira abahungu b’incuti ze,bakidagadura ntawe ubahagaze hejuru!

KU MYAKA 13 UMUKOBWA ABONWA NK’UMUGORE

Mu muco wabo kandi,abagabo ni abashyitsi b’imena! Buri joro abagabo(kuva ku myaka 13 kuzamura) baba banyuranamo bajya gusura abagore (kuva ku myaka 13 kuzamura)! Ndetse mu ijoro rimwe umugore/umukobwa ashobora kwakira abashyitsi (abagabo) barenze umwe! Babyita « gusurwa bitunguranye » bakabikunda kubi,banabyita « le mariage à pied »( ndakeka ari nko “gukocorwa” mu kinyarwanda,gusa ho akenshi na kenshi ntahaguma)!!

Ariko kandi bikundira abagabo/abahungu bavuye kure,nibo bafatwa nk’amata y’abashyitsi.Ngo bituma batabyara abana b’amaraso amwe yisubiramo(amacugane)/la consanguinité.

Nanone umugore w’umutima ntiyemera umugabo wo mu muryango we bwite wa hafi, kuko ngo ibyo byo « ni icyaha,ni nko kwitwara nk’amatungo ».🙄🙄 Ntibegerana ntibanabyinana,ntibateretana! Ngo ayo yo ni amahano!! Aho televiziyo zihagereye,abafitanye isano ntibarebera hamwe za filimi z’urukundo kugira ngo bidatuma bagira irari bakaryamana kizira!

UMUGORE W’UMU MOSO

Wenda uribaza uti: ese barateretana cyangwa birikora?

Yego,ariko ntibagorana! Iyo wumva ushaka umugore/umukobwa,uramusuhuza yaguha ikiganza 👋ukagikirigitamo gahoro, yakikurekera akaba aremeye,yakwiyaka akaba aranze! Ubwo uwemeye (uwakurekeye ikiganza) ahita ajya kukwitegura uwo mugoroba nyine!Abagore bose bagira amazu yabo! Nanone iyo umuhaye impano y’akantu yambara k’umurimbo,ntagakuremo ntakurakarire,nabwo aba yemeye!

Hari ubwo umugore akunda umugabo akamugumana igihe kisumbuyeho! Icyo gihe aba yemerewe no kujya gusangira nawe mu muryango we, kandi agatangira gufasha umugore mu kazi k’urugo! Ariko urugo si urwe,kandi uwo mugore akomeza gusurwa n’abandi bagabo yishimiye! Ibi byo gufuha ntibabizi,yewe nta n’ijambo “ifuhe”/jalousie riba mu rurimi rwabo!

Mu ba Moso, intanga ngabo ntizibonwa nk’izikora abana! Ntibavuga ko umugabo yateye inda! Ngo ntayo agira!!🤣Bavuga ko umwana akorwa mu magufwa no mu bura bwa nyina, ko umwana ari uwa nyina, ko intanga ngabo umugabo asiga mu mugore ari izo “kuhira” gusa; ngo imibonano mpuzabitsina n’ibisigara mu nda ibyara ni nk’imvura yuhira umurima,ikimera kikamera!

Mu Bushinwa hose,ibyemezo by’amavuko bikenerwa mu butegetsi(nko mu kwandikisha umwana ku ishuri,gusaba ubufasha bwa leta,..)ubihabwa ari uko umwana yanditse mu gitabo cy’umuryango! Si ngombwa ko hajyamo izina rya se w’umwana. Mu gihe nta se wanditswemo,nyirarume(musaza wa nyina) niwe wandikwa nka Se!

Aba bantu ni “orijinali” Murabibona gute? Wagira ngo bibera mu isi yabo!

Nitwa Hakizimana Maurice


Profeseri Hakizimana Maurice ni umwarimu w’umwuga warangije icyiciro gihanitse(masters Meef) mu burezi muri Université Catholique de Paris no mu bumenyamuntu muri Sorbonne Université,akaba yigisha amashuri makuru mu Bufaransa.Wamukurikira kandi kuri : Facebook,Twitter na Instagram

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