Marriage is very difficult – after romantic moments, welcome to realities!

HAKIZIMANA Maurice

Marriage is lovely when you look at it from afar, from those who have successfully married or from newlyweds who love each other, but when you step into it, you discover that what lies behind the number six is ​​much more than the number seven. Many prepare so well for the romantic aspects of marriage, but very few prepare for the realities of marriage. Do you know that the most difficult part of marriage plays a bigger role than the romantic moments? However, it is not the lack of romance that breaks the marriage, but the inability of the couple to endure the most difficult part of marriage.

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Here are five of the hard things about marriage that you probably won’t be told:


1.Stay faithful

It is easy to abstain from sex as a single person if you have not tasted the sweetness of sex, but it is very difficult to remain faithful in marriage if you are denied sex without a valid reason. The temptation to commit adultery is greater than the temptation to fornicate as a single person.
Because you now know the taste of sex, the seduction will come from those who are willing to give you or have an affair with you. In some cases, when your spouse becomes cold on sexual matters, there are several other people who want to give you hot and sizzling sex.
You need more discipline to remain faithful to your spouse emotionally and sexually, especially in this day and age where cheating has become the norm.
If you have not been faithful to remain sexually pure now that you are single, it will be very difficult for you to control it when you are married. Marriage doesn’t cure adultery, self-control does!


2. Sexual questions

You see, it is wise to keep yourself sexually pure until marriage—purity in thought, deed, and word. All who deceive you, who steal your virginity, only want to destroy you.One of the most difficult aspects of marriage, which many fail to overcome, is the question of sex.

One partner is a novice while the other is a master teacher in matters of lovemaking; one has a high libido while the other can go months without having sex and still feel sane. Virginity helps to discipline you; it keeps you from undue and unholy exposure to sex that could either make you hate sex with a perfect hatred or turn you into a sex maniac.


3.Money matters

As they say that money answers all, money also destroys many things. Money can spice up love in marriages, but it can also ruin it.

What is your perception of money?

Can you pull it off together or separately?

As a woman, do you have the twisted mindset that my money is my money, but your money is our money?
As a man, are you willing to work and earn a living or do you want to live off your wife’s income while dictating how the money will be spent without bringing anything to the table?

Can you open up to your partner about your financial life without secretly building an estate in the village while feeding on his money like a parasite?

Until you resolve this issue before marriage and in marriage, it will be quite difficult to crack the nut of your marital bliss.


4. Unmet expectations


If you dreamed that she remained slim, but after pregnancy she was a size 15, what would you do? If he was a romantic and available man, but after marriage the search for a green pasture took him miles away, can you survive that? It is wise and best to prepare for the most difficult moments of marriage so that you can face them when they come, and they certainly will. Just as you prepare for the sun, do not forget to prepare for the storms when they come before the rain falls.


5. Managing differences

Whether you agree or not, managing differences is one of the major causes of divorce in marriage. Many marriages fail due to irreconcilable differences. How do you plan to reconcile your differences in marriage should they arise?
If he squeezes the toothpaste from the middle, while she was raised to be meticulous in squeezing it neatly from the base, can you tolerate it? If she likes cold or hot food and you prefer it hot and steaming, can you accommodate?


These questions and many more are the most difficult part of marriage, for which you must prepare yourself. Marriage is only an event of a day or two, but it is the journey of a lifetime. More than the excitement of married life, more than the grand wedding ceremony, have you been transformed by the renewal of your mind to face all the challenges of marriage when they come?

"(...) However, those who do will have tribulation in their flesh. But I am trying to spare you."-The bible,1 Cor 7:28

A delay in childbearing, job loss, moving, family problems, financial crisis, hard times or spiritual problems can arise; you must be prepared to face whatever life throws at you so that you do not chicken out when they come.

Marriage is hard, I’m not scaring you; it’s just one of those truths you may not be told or want to hear. Finding the right person to marry is hard, but staying married is the hardest part of life’s realities.

This world,

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